blood test denied by Dr.

2 years ago i contracted hsv1 (genital area) a few days after having unprotected sex with my boyfriend. we had been together for 2 months at the time but always wore protection until then. I went to the dr. they did a swab test and it came back positive. i had written an earlier post about "boyfriend in denial" so basically he has been in denial for 2 years ...saying he did not have it or have any symptoms and even denied that I had it...saying the dr was wrong ...i asked him many times to get a blood test and he refused....

a couple weeks ago i had an outbreak again... and it came up again that he should get a blood test...so this time he did go to the dr. they basically told him that the blood test is faulty and there was no point if he does not have any symptoms. but the dr. did say that if I had it he most likely does have it or even gave it to me without symptoms.

should i just stop worrying about this? or should we try another dr.? is this just pointless? i guess i just wanted him to stop being in denial about the situation.