Lelani, you are such a sweetheart. I love reading all of your comments to posts others have made. Such an inspiring and beautiful woman!

Lelani, I just wanted to share with you how much I LOVE reading your posts. I am so thankful that you are a part of this site. You just exude loving warmth in your responses, and I just feel safe whenever I read what you have to say. Thank you for that. <3 :)

I just wanted to say thank you so much for your help and for taking the time to read my posts. It's people like you that have made me feel so much happier in the space of a minute. This is a great webiste and there are amazing people on here.x

thank you for your wonderful words. I needed to read them. And reread them.

Where can I get this silky NZ barrier you talk about?

Your new profile pic is gorgeous!! Hot mama!!

I wanted to send you a message to tell you how spectacular and supportive you are in this forum... you illuminate kindness and compassion always. I got to meet Arial last weekend and he is nothing short of an angel himself, and had such good things to say about you. Not only has herpes taught me the loving myself, self respect, taking care of body, etc, etc.. It's brought people into my life, i'm so proud to know. I'm inspired everyday! Just wanted to tell you how great you are and seeing as how i'm setting my sites on being a world traveler, maybe someday we can meet! Thank you again :) Have a great weekend Alex

I just read your comments and I need some advice. I am a "young" 59 years old, separated and getting divorced after 25 years of marriage. I have had herpes the entire time I was married, did not know my wife to be had it until one day three months after my wedding it just appeared. I was devastated as most are. Early on the outbreaks were often and severe. In the last years have benn maybe1-3 x a year, but also unfortunately frequency of sex had dimished as did my marriage Now, at 59 I will be single; alone and nervous for the first time since I was 34! How do I tell person about this,especially if it someone that I really care about. I am already emotionally distraught after years of marital counseling, seperation back and force and now the ultimatum of divorce. I am very old school. I have recently met a very sweet, actually super sweet 33 year old that I am definitely enjoy being around. No dating, kissing, sex etc., until my divorce is final ..... help.