I was reading someone else's post that said that you need to have a relationship with yourself first before you can have a healthy relationship and be ready to be with someone else. I don't really know how to form this particular discussion but I guess I'm wondering how do YOU have a relationship with yourself? What kinda things do you do to make yourself feel special and happy? For me, I suppose one thing to work on would be to be more comfortable with my independence. What about you guys?