I love my gynecologist but don't like the way I have been treated.
I have been trough a lot with this Dr. When I was a child, I was in an accident and had a crushed pelvis. Six years ago I had surgery to fix the damage that I had lived with for so many years. My Dr is an amazing surgeon, he and an urologist fixed all of my issues. I had to have cistocele, rectocele and urethrocele repair with a donor tissue graft. Living many years with issues and finally having an amazing outcome from fabulous surgeons, I really have a great loyalty to these Drs.
But with my GHSV-2 diagnoses I have been treated differently. I was celibate for nine years, just contradicted GHSV-2. I went to his office for my diagnosis 1/3/18. Then I did a full STD check through online testing. I thought everything would come back negative so I didn't want the test on my record. I tested positive for syphilis, but this happens often with people with autoimmune disorders. Which I have and have had always tested positive for since I was 21 years old. I asked my drs office for the blood test to find out for sure if I had syphilis, they refused. Said I would have to go through testing site I had used before. Even though I told the nurse about all of my autoimmune isssues, my Dr implied that I had probably had syphilis before,and that was why I had antibioties to syphilis. And the nurse told me if I did test positive for syphilis, they would probably not provide the treatment, since they had not done the diagnostic testing. Feeling like a whore!! Ok so my Dr has been married like 5 times and I am the slut with syphilis??? !!!
Ok so after their refusal, I did follow up testing on my own. No support! Ya, no syphilis!! Autoimmune disorder!! Ok they know I have pain in my joints, I have some kind of connective tissue disorder. It is in my medical records that I coughed so hard my rib detached from my sternum. I want to quit him but have a loyalty from my previous surgery.
Refusing further testing was his choice. He is MY doctor!! If I choose to do screening on my own, that is my choice! If I need follow up or help, he should be there for me. Am I wrong??
Ladies what would you do??? Love to hear your feedback- think some of you have been through this