First I want to thank Adrial for the H Forum!! You are helping me and so many people. You are such a blessing in a negative world!
I rang in the New Year 2018 with a diagnosis of GHSV-2. I am a 50 year old female. I am fierce, stubborn, and very goal oriented - I started my own business when I was 23 years old. Very successful!! Killer business - six figures every year! Married 13 years, divorced 15 years. 9 years ago I stopped dating and devoted myself to my daughter. Focusing on her was the best decision I have ever made in my life!! She is amazing, gorgeous, works 2 jobs and is in college, a STEM major!
After my daughter graduated high school, I thought I would start dating, I didn't. This was the first time in my life I was completely alone. I enjoyed my time to myself. In August of 2017 I started having casual sex with younger men. Basically one per month. I am 50 but look 35. It was my December boyfriend that messed up my life! Or did he fix it???
So the December man, gorgeous, all tatted up, muscular, beautiful! Yes all of that and after I checked him out online, married!! So we had been together twice in December. The second time 12/23. By 12/29, was having my first symptoms of HSV-2.
1/3/18 my appointment with my gynecologist, it was confirmed, I had HSV-2. I was in so much pain.
So this is how I have dealt with this crap!!
1. Ok it's HSV, at least it not HIV!!!
2. I started Valtrex for suppression therapy. I am very healthy and my diet was already close to the diet recommended for herpes suppression.
3. I gave him disclosure via online anonymous disclosure. I hope he didn't sleep that night!!
4. I cut off contact with younger men that wasn't good for me!
Love my life! More than likely, I will never know but this has helped me in the future! Maybe I don't get into the wrong vehicle, maybe I don't fuck the wrong person. I am alive and yes I might have HSV-2, but I am going to be here for a long time!!!