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Disclosure before mutual masturbation?


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Hooked up with a guy this weekend after our second date. I ended up in my underwear, limited the sexual activity just to touching, avoided any oral, intercourse, or genital-to-genital touching, and didn't disclose. I'm feeling sort of guilty even though there was no chance of transmission... And I'm worried that if I decide to go further with him and disclose then, that he'll freak out that he's already had his fingers inside of me. Did I do the wrong thing?

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I don't think you did the wrong thing...he didn't ask up front if you had any stds did he??

Not sure why morally most of us seem obligated to disclosure up front, when it takes two

There is a small risk of transmission called H Whitlow, to the finger, particularly the cuticule, however rare.

If he freaks out, I guess he should of asked right?

But now that you know it's possible to go further, I'd advise disclosure if you see it heading down that path.

Good luck

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