To tell or not to tell...

Hi Guys,

I am 26 years old. I found out I have herpes about a year ago. I got it from my then husband who was unfaithful. I'm now in a new relationship and I care deeply about the individual. We've been sexually active but always with a condom and I've been on the suppression regime. I'm still worried about him getting it though but I'm so afraid of loosing him, I don't know how to tell him. He gets super anxious about illnesses. We've both done HIV tests that came back negative and now he wants us to have unprotected sex and I keep giving frivolous excuses why we shouldn't. I love this man so much I could not imagine loosing him.