One small white pimple look something?

On my inner labia I found out one small white pimplish and painless bump. Last nite, I had sex with my husband no prodrome feeling at all. This morning I got little itchy so I wanted to check. Its more looking like pimple so I wanted to squeeze it which puss doesnt come out easly like pimple. It was little hard and I tries hard and small white puss came up.

Could be mild outbreak? What are the possibility of transmission? My husband used condom no suppression though my livee has some problem and my doctor cut it out!

Btw, did you guys feel like its constant disturbance and I am always aware of my vagina after herpes. This started after 3-4 months after I got diagnosed. I have it for like 5 years and soooo tired!

I don't know the stats for transmission during an outbreak (and it's pretty much impossible to say if what you're experiencing is an outbreak without seeing your doctor). If someone with a new infection is going to show symptoms, they usually do so within about 10 days. I very much relate to being hyper aware of my genitals for months. As I continue to become more at peace with my status, that has largely gone away. Remember that your husband knows your status and still chooses to have sex. None of us can predict our outbreaks and sometimes we don't even know if what we're experiencing is an OB! We can only do our best. Then it's up to our partner to make their own decisions, knowing there will always be a risk of transmission.

I don't know the stats for transmission during an outbreak (and it's pretty much impossible to say if what you're experiencing is an outbreak without seeing your doctor). If someone with a new infection is going to show symptoms, they usually do so within about 10 days. I very much relate to being hyper aware of my genitals for months. As I continue to become more at peace with my status, that has largely gone away. Remember that your husband knows your status and still chooses to have sex. None of us can predict our outbreaks and sometimes we don't even know if what we're experiencing is an OB! We can only do our best. Then it's up to our partner to make their own decisions, knowing there will always be a risk of transmission.

How about this? We are using condom everytime we had sex. When he tries to pull of condom with his fingers what about the posibility to transmit to his hand or he touches his eyes? He is a lens user and so scarres he might get somehow to his eye. I dont even let me him touch me down there and its frustrating :(