Living with herpes

Just found out I have herpes my husband is showing no signs or outbreaks on the other hand I am :( I feel disgusted haven't eaten or slept lost weight I'm paranoid won't let him touch me and I'm mad I'm depressed I have 2outbreaks on my buttocks all I do is cry how can I deal with this ??

In time you will discover that all you have is a skin rash. Eventually you will mostly forget all about it. But it will take time to get there. For now, experiencing depression/anger is pretty normal. My advice is to let yourself feel it, but be sure to let it pass once it has run its course.

Thanks for the response it's hard to feel like this but I know it's out of my control I'm trying so hard :(. Thanks again appreciate it

If it makes feel any better I feel the same way. Might as well try to sleep since you know. My doc didn't think it was and then I got the call and that sent me for a loop because it was the exact opposite.

At least it isn't permanent and will go away :)