For the women who discovered the lack of love and worth for themselves, through an H diagnosis.

As I've seen on here time and time again, H often brings to the forefront the deeply hidden and self denied insecurities and voids we hold so deeply; only for H to uncover that issue for many of us. Some of us already knew before getting H, but many didn't realize this about ourselves, until getting H and coming to this forum. This applies to all women, despite age. We all need to develop this for ourselves first, before we can find the right companion that will compliment the foundation you already built for yourself.

http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/6926738?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000046

It doesn't just apply to women - most men are FAR more insecure than they would ever want you to know.... I've realized that though teaching dance... I see men bolt after the lesson until they feel they are "good enough" to stay for the dance all the time. Most women will stay, even though they feel insecure, but then they beat themselves up for not being "good enough" ...LOL

We humans really are screwed up - our so-called "advanced brain" brings us FAR more upset and angst than our "unadvanced" animal counterparts ever experience.....

Right, but I can't relate to men. So I just share what I can relate to as a woman if that makes sense?