This place is a JUDGEMENT FREE ZONE. PERIOD.
If you find yourself feeling angry, upset, judgemental .... if you feel someone is so "wrong' that you have to shame and insult them .... if you are tempted in ANY way to say anything but KIND, SUPPORTIVE, LOVING, AND NON-JUDGEMENTAL comments on here ... WALK AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER.
True, we may not always feel that we *like* how someone is being. But that is NO REASON to attack them. When you do that you not only break the trust of the person that you attack, you may well keep someone else from commenting for fear that you will judge and attack THEM.
This forum is a SACRED place where we welcome anyone who is looking for answers. And it may take us awhile to help them to understand where *we* are coming from. And they may not choose to agree. Or they may continue to question and try to counter with every reason to not agree. That is NO EXCUSE to go on an attack or to gang up on them and it WON'T be tolerated.
If you feel someone is being insulting or bringing negativity to the forum, contact myself or @Adrial
, or one of the other Moderators and let US deal with it... please and thank you.