Just found out at the age of 51 that I have Herpes 2. After being married and in a monogamous relationship for 23 years, my ex and I divorced because he was very abusive and I couldn’t live like that anymore. Fast forward 10 years and I am remarried to an older guy who I thought was my soulmate. Well I guess he’s not since he knew he had herpes and never thought to tell me about it. I’ve had it for years as I’ve had some outbreaks but didn’t put 2 and 2 together. This last one was a doozy. My husband mentioned it could be herpes and I was like, what? Well he was right. I am completely crushed that he kept this from me and now I have to suffer the pain and embarrassment because of him. Life is so unfair. I just want to die.